WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT?

Matthew 20:29-34

 

Every year it seems that finding the right gifts for those we love seems to get a little harder—and often more expensive!  We ask them what they want for Christmas, but more often than not, many people do not want to appear greedy or presumptuous and offer vague answers that are not that helpful.  (On the other hand, there are those who have made their lists, alphabetized and prioritized them and have them ready for distribution!)

 

     A more basic question was asked by Jesus when He found Himself confronted by two blind men along the side of the road outside Jericho.  Fully aware of their blindness, Jesus still asked them, “What do you want me to do for you?”

 

     As we study this passage this morning, consider with me the implications of what that question means to you as the Lord Jesus Christ looks right at you and asks that same question.  What do we say each time we approach Him in prayer and He motivates us to be thoughtful enough to know the answer to that question.

 

THESIS:  Jesus Christ wants to respond to our needs but we must be prepared as we approach Him to acknowledge what they are and what we desire for Him to do.

 

I.  THE BOLDNESS OF THE BLIND MEN

 

Matt 20:30  …two blind men sitting by the road, hearing that Jesus was passing by, cried out, saying, “Lord, have mercy on us, Son of David!”

 

--Although the text does not say, we get the idea that these men regularly sat by the road, perhaps begging to survive.

 

--When they heard that Jesus was passing by, they were possessed by a great boldness and with no apparent concern for how they would be perceived, they cried out.

 

A.  THEY UNDERSTOOD THEIR NEED

 

--No one had to explain to them that they had needs they were incapable of meeting, issues in their lives that were beyond the scope of their resources.

 

--As blind men, their infirmity was obvious and they understood how their lives had been impacted by their disability.

 

Too many people today do not understand their needs and with much bravado walk around deceiving themselves and others about how self-sufficient they are.  But people all around us are in great need—from hurts they have suffered in their past which have crippled them emotionally, fears they deal with which paralyze certain aspects of their lives, anger and bitterness which have drained their capacity to have any joy in their lives, spiritual blindness which has locked them in a sea of darkness without any hope.
     The blind men understood their need. What about you?

 

B.  THEY ACKNOWLEDGED THEIR CONDITION

 

--By crying out to Jesus for mercy, they publicly admitted their condition and humbly yielded to His will and the goodness of His heart.

 

--Here was no qualified appeal, no attempt to try to save face and ask for a little help in a situation that would soon be under their own control.

 

--No, theirs was a fervent plea that acknowledged that apart from what Christ could do, they had no recourse, no alternate plan of action, no back up plan of their own to put in place.

 

--Their boldness and transparency generated a strong response from the multitude around Jesus as they “sternly told them to be quiet,” or translated more strongly, they “rebuked, scolded, gave them a serious warning” to be back off!

 

Matt 20:31  And the multitude sternly told them to be quiet…

 

C.  THEY INTENSIFIED THEIR PLEAS

 

--Whether their sense of desperation pushed them forward, or their sense of focus shut out the opposing voices, instead of backing off, the blind men cried out with more vigor than before.

 

Matt 20:31  …but they cried out all they more…

 

--Can we not learn a lesson in persistence and passion in the way we approach Jesus from these blind men?

 

II.  THE ANTAGONISM OF THE CROWD

 

--What we see in the blind men is understandable in those who recognize the depth of their need and who desperately want to be made whole.

 

Matt 20:31  And the multitude sternly told them to be quiet…

 

--What is puzzling at first is the antagonism of the crowd toward these two men who obviously needed what only Jesus could provide.

 

A.  THEY DESPISED THEIR WEAKNESS

 

--Something in the fallen human heart not only lacks sympathy for those who suffer from severe infirmities and whose lives are made not only different but difficult by their handicap—we often see that people are uncomfortable, ill at ease, and in some ways threatened by people whose plight leaves us not knowing how to respond.

 

--And so we avoid them, keep them away from us, try to find ways to push away the feelings of inadequacy we have when we are around them.

 

Christians have as hard a time as anyone else when it comes to dealing with people not like themselves.  And I don’t mean just those with physical disabilities.  We tend to shy away from those who have been broken by bad choices…even from those who have been broken by the bad choices of others.  Not knowing what to say or how to treat them, we just stay away and in subtle ways push them away by making it clear to them that they should keep their problems to themselves and not make us uncomfortable by forcing us to recognize their pain.

While we do not despise them, we despise their weakness for intruding into our sense of well-being and forcing us to have to respond to their condition.

 

B.  THEY RESENTED THEIR INTRUSION

 

--Therefore, when these blind men halted the parade by their insistent appeals to Jesus, the multitude resented their intrusion and were upset that their agenda had been inconveniently delayed to deal with an impossible situation.

 

--Somehow they assumed that their claims on Jesus were more important than those of the blind men, their desires for His attention greater than the desires of these two by the side of the road.

 

Christians walking along in the crowd of those who follow Jesus sometimes lose sight of the needs of others.  We become so concerned with what we want from Jesus that we become resentful of the needs of others.  We want Jesus to pay attention to us, not them and we want the design of the journey to follow the course we have prescribed and not be interrupted by any disruption that would divert us from what we want.

When we design ministry plans as a church and try to reach out to those by the side of the road, we nearly always encounter opposition.  It is almost as if we resent the intrusion of any plans that turn attention away from the way we want things to go…even when the interruptions are actually not viewed that way from Christ’s perspective.  Part of His calling is to seek and save and serve those by the way and we need to be prepared for frequent stops along the way if we expect to follow Jesus!

 

C.  THEY OBSTRUCTED THEIR WAY

 

--Here in this situation, the multitude not only allowed themselves to harbor these feelings in their hearts, but they acted on them and did what they could to actually prevent the blind men from coming to Jesus!

 

--How cold our hearts become when we allow our agenda to prevail over the calling of Christ and the needy condition of others!

 

III.  THE COMPASSION OF CHRIST

 

--The striking contrast here is between the attitudes and actions of the crowd and the compassionate response of Jesus Christ.

 

Matt 20:32  And Jesus stopped and called them, and said, “What do you want Me to do for you?”

 

A.  HE TOOK TIME TO LISTEN

 

--One of the amazing observations about Jesus is that He was never in a hurry to get somewhere because He knew that much of His ministry would be to those He met along the way.

 

--Jesus demonstrated the practical nature of His love by stopping to listen, paying attention to those who cried out for His attention.

 

--The same is true today as He sits on His throne ready to hear and respond to all who cry out to Him, to any who call on His name.

 

B.  HE INVITED THEM TO BE SPECIFIC

 

--Here is a fascinating twist to the story:  everyone is aware that the two men are blind, as Jesus also must have been, but He asks them what they actually want Him to do for them.

 

--He knew their need, but they themselves needed to know what they were asking for Him to do.

 

How much would our praying be changed if we had in mind exactly what we wanted to ask Jesus when it comes to the time when we present our requests to Him?  For many people, the concept of answered prayer is merely theoretical because they seldom ask for Jesus to do anything specifically for them.
     In prayer, as we call upon the Lord, are we aware of our needs, aware of our weaknesses, aware of what remains to be done in our lives to make us whole and fulfilled?  If we pray generically, we admit that we really have nothing in mind that we think only Jesus can do (presuming to think that we have everything under control and aren’t really desperate enough to have no other recourse but to rely on Him).
     How would your praying be different if you Jesus were speaking these words directly to you as you begin your time with Him in prayer:  “David, what do you want me to do for you?  What is on your heart that you know is beyond you and only I can handle?”

 

C.  HE REACHED OUT WITH COMPASSION

 

Matt 20:34   And moved with compassion, Jesus touched their eyes; and immediately they regained their sight and followed Him.

 

--When they answered, Jesus reached out to them with compassion and healed them, restored their sight.

 

--Their admission of their need, their faith in His power, their persistence in their appeal—all of these things “move Jesus with compassion” and led Him to take action to answer their request.

 

--Do we not ask for what we want Him to do because we are afraid He will disappoint us and have no compassion on us?

 

D.  HE HEALED THEM WITH POWER

 

--He healed these men with the power of God and miraculously changed their lives immediately.

 

--Because they were bold enough to ask, brave enough not to back down, believing enough to cry out to Jesus as Lord—He healed them!

 

Jesus can still do that—He does it every day in the lives of His people!

 

--But we must be willing to come to Him and acknowledge what we really want and measure what we want by what will bring the most glory to His name!

 

IV.  THE RESPONSE TO THE LIGHT

 

--These blind men cried out to Jesus and would not be denied an audience with the Lord.

 

--As a result of their encounter with Christ, the darkness of the blindness was changed to the radiant light of restored sight—and the first face they saw was that of Jesus!

 

Matt 20:34  …and immediately they regained their sight and followed Him.

 

A.  THEY REALIZED THEIR REQUEST

 

--What they had longed for was now theirs as they realized their life-long dream as Jesus answered their request.

 

B.  THEY REGAINED THEIR SIGHT

 

--Their sight was restored, physically they could now see.

 

C.  THEY RECOGNIZED THEIR LORD

 

--But more than that, their spiritual blindness was healed as well and they could now see that Jesus Christ was really the Lord.

 

--For all that Jesus has done in your life, for all the times He has responded to your appeals, do you recognize that He is Lord of every area of your life?

 

D.  THEY REORDERED THEIR LIVES

 

--When Jesus changed their lives by giving them sight, they changed their direction in life—they reordered their days—and set out immediately to follow Him.

 

--You see, having our prayers answered is not the end we should be after—it is the goal of our reordered priorities to rise up and follow Him.

 

--Just finding relief from our most pressing needs does not matter as much as learning that we can come to Jesus with every need—and in every moment of our days reorder our lives so that we follow Jesus Christ!

 

So, as you stand before the Lord Jesus this morning and He asks you, “What do you want Me to do for You?” do you have a clear idea of what your answer will be?

 

     If not, either you are not aware of how great your needs really are…or you are not ready to admit how absolutely dependent upon Jesus you need to be!

 

     If you were to choose which ones you are more like in this account, would it be those in the multitude whose personal agendas get in the way of people trying to get to Jesus, or like those two blind men who knew how much they needed Jesus and determined to let nothing stand in their way?

 

     May God give us the faith and the persistence and the boldness of these two blind men as we dare to come to Jesus with all our needs!

 

December 14, 2003

Providence Baptist Church


© David Horner 2003

Sermon outlines are copyrighted in the event of future publication.

They may be used for preaching and teaching purposes,

but may not be published or sold.