ALL TALK, NO ACTION!

Matthew 21:28-32

 

Every parent has had the experience, and if you have more than one child you have experienced it in different ways.  I am speaking of the experience of the father in this parable.  You give the instruction and expect obedience, but one child will stare you down, argue, cry, tell you he won’t do it, and create quite a scene.  Another child will passively say “OK” but by his body language and lack of attention you know that it will never happen.

     That is the way people respond to the commands of His Father, Jesus tells us.  What He is looking for is not so much the initial response as the final outcome.  Will we do the will of His Father, or just talk about religion, debate about the Bible, discuss controversial points of doctrine?

     One of the largest problems facing the church in our day is credibility.  We have millions of members who profess belief in Christ but who allow minimal influence of those beliefs in their daily lives—leading to the justifiable charge against us:  “What a bunch of hypocrites!”

     Over the years here at Providence, we have recognized the extent of this problem and have committed ourselves to authenticity—and in so doing have declared war on hypocrisy!

     In this parable, Jesus leads the charge to overcome this enemy of credibility, genuineness and authenticity.

 

THESIS:  In all that we say and do, we either confirm that Jesus is Lord of our lives or deny it.

 

I.  THE DIFFERENT LOOKS OF UNBELIEF

Matt 21:28-30  “But what do you think? A man had two sons, and he came to the first and said, ‘Son, go work today in the vineyard.’  29 “And he answered and said, ‘I will, sir’; and he did not go.  30 “And he came to the second and said the same thing. But he answered and said, ‘I will not’; yet he afterward regretted it and went.

 

A.  A DEFIANT HEART—BLATANT AND REBELLIOUS UNBELIEF

              Matt 21:30 30 “And he came to the second and said the same thing. But he answered and said, ‘I will not’

--Some who do not believe in Christ have no ambivalence about their unbelief but consciously and intentionally reject Him, His salvation and His lordship.

--With defiance, they shake their fist at God as if to dare Him to do anything about their blatant insult to His role as Creator, Savior and King.

1.  Enemies of Truth

--Calculating and manipulating people take great pains to protest against facts, argue against the existence of truth, and reject what stands in the way of the way they want the world to be.

 

On the heels of the wave of interest in the movie about Christ’s passion comes a counterpoint to challenge the validity of the Gospels upon which Gibson’s movie is based.  A book called The DaVinci Code is the latest effort to try to shape public thinking so that the authority and trustworthiness of the  Bible is attacked. Even some Christians have fallen into the trap of being gullible enough to wonder whether the blatant attacks on God’s Word could possibly be true.  In an effort to deny and suppress what is true, there are those who are so defiant that they dare not only to refuse to believe but to put as many barriers as possible in the way of the belief of others…they relish the privilege of “suppressing the truth in unrighteousness” as Paul puts it in Romans 1:18.

--The command of God is to believe…and with a defiant heart there are many who stand as the son of vineyard owner did and with rebellious spirits insist, “I will not!”

2.  Friends of Worldliness

--Other defiant ones refuse to believe for reasons not nearly so noble as the advocacy of a substitute for truth—they have no interest in such things but only in accumulating as much worldly pleasure as possible.

--As honest pursuers of temporal treasures and pleasures, they admit to themselves and acknowledge to everyone else that they do not intend to allow belief in God to get in the way of all that they want.

1 John 2:15  Do not love the world, nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him

--Obey the commands of God and give up all that appeals to my base and godless appetites?  “I will not!” is the defiant answer.

3.  Advocates of Sin

--A third group has learned that to love the things of the world requires that they become adept in their practices of sin, cultivating more creative ways reject God’s ways in downward spirals into unspeakable acts and thoughts that even in a fallen world seek the cover of darkness.

--All around are those who make no effort to hide their disdain for God, their hatred for anything holy, and their anger at those who dare to stand up against their sin.

--In our nation, in certain segments of the culture, if sin is identified as such, those who make that pronouncement become guilty of what has now been deemed a “hate crime.”

--Meanwhile the advocates for sin and those who coldly permit and promote actions and attitudes that destroy people are protected and supported by those who have rejected and rebelled against God at every possible point and responded to His instruction and commands by demanding, “I will not!  I will not go!  I will not do!  I will not believe and defy God or anyone else to try and make me!”

 

--Unfortunately, we hear those harsh voices and see the consequences of those defiant lives and harbor quiet feelings in our hearts that say, “I am so glad I am not like them!  I am so glad I have been on God’s side all along!”       Perhaps we should be careful not to reach our conclusions just yet because Jesus continues this parable.

 

B.  A DECEIVING HEART—SUBTLE AND INDIFFERENT UNBELIEF

Matthew 21:28-29  … A man had two sons, and he came to the first and said, ‘Son, go work today in the vineyard.’  29 “And he answered and said, ‘I will, sir’; and he did not go.

--This son gave no indication whatsoever of a defiant heart, but he was just as full of disregard for the will of his father as the other one.

--If you witnessed the exchange between father and son, you would have seen a response that appeared to be positive, gave the impression of being willing and ready to obey and please his father.

--That is the intention of the deceiving heart, to give the outward appearance of right-doing, but whether the desire is to deceive the father, or if the heart itself is deceived into believing that the willing and doing would actually follow the words, the truth is that in a subtle manner and with careless indifference, this son had no interest in or intention toward obeying and pleasing the father.

 

It is important at this point to note that Jesus was speaking to the chief priests and elders who had just challenged His authority in the previous verses.  Now Jesus offers the first of three parables designed to expose the unbelief of those who professed to believe in God and live for Him.
     They were notorious for their outward show of “right-doing” but absence of any indication that they had a heart for or trust in God.
     Lots of religious people in every generation since have proven Jesus’ point, that saying is not always backed up by doing, profession not matched by practice—all talk, but no action!

--Perhaps the greatest and most common charge against professing Christians is that they are hypocrites, saying one thing yet living another.

Mahatma Ghandi made the now-famous statement, “If it weren’t for Christians, I’d be a Christian,” as he expressed what so many have observed.  There is a great divide between the Sunday morning confessions and the Monday-Saturday conduct of many who participate in worship and respond with the words “Here am I…I will go.”
     Depending upon the worship traditions, those words may be passionately declared or ritualistically recited, but they amount to “all talk, no action” and bring dishonor to Christ.

--How can you tell if you personally may be deceiving yourself (since none of us needs to place ourselves in a position of determining that for someone else)?

 

1.  Divided Hearts and Compartmentalized Lives

--In a culture which demands the right to separate what we believe from what we do, how can we expect people to leave that practice behind in their spiritual lives?

Presidential candidates declare proudly that although they have religious beliefs, they would never allow them to color their public policy decisions.

Professors of religion stand in classrooms and declare that they will sometimes make confessional statements that must be kept separate from what they teach as true.

Parents declare that theirs is a Christian home and then infrequently attend church, seldom give more than a token dollar, fill their homes with ungodly entertainment, and never pray or read the Bible at home.

--In a postmodern culture, those things are perfectly consistent with the inconsistency of compartmentalized thinking.

 

2.  Dry Eyes and Indifferent Prayers

--In prayer and in worship, there are many who say “I will obey” and confess Jesus as Lord who keep all things spiritual at a distance so that they never allow their hearts to be touched, their eyes to cry over the offense of their sin or the beauty of God’s glory.

--While others are moved and allow their emotions to respond, they pride themselves on being unemotional people and build walls around their hearts to keep it that way.

--They are not sure what to say when people ask about answered prayer because they seldom have actually expected much and have no experience in the realm of praying by faith and actually believing God. (see 21:22)

 

3.  Dutiful Rituals and Joyless Attitudes

--This kind of folks seldom miss their prayer time, seldom miss going to church, seldom are lacking an opinion about the structure and content of prayer and worship, but who never care very much about the heart of either…going through the motions is enough for them.

--The concern in mind for them is what the requirements are, not what the privileges are.

--Muddling through the motions week after week in such a way that their religious duty does not creep over its borders and affect the “real world” in which they really live makes them prime targets for Jesus words in this parable.

--We could all give plenty of other illustrations of this kind of deceived heart but the question Jesus asks forces the issue to a conclusive question of what God wants…and what we are ready to give!

 

One Son:  “Here am I…I will obey.” …but he did not!

One Son:  “I don’t want to, and will not obey.” …but he did!

--So Jesus asks, “Which of the two did the will of his father?”

--The answer is obvious…the one who did the will of his father by obeying…not by talking a good talk.

 

--So unbelief can show up in these two ways:  either a blatant, defiant rebellion against God, or in a subtle, deceptive unwillingness to follow God.

 

II.  THE DISTINCTIVE LOOK OF OBEDIENCE

--But now here we are…Jesus is not just telling a story for the entertainment of the crowd, but making a distinction between those who don’t believe and know it, and those who think they believe and don’t know it.

--Jesus says that the difference will be apparent in whether the words match their walk, the confessions match their conduct.

A.  A CHANGE OF DIRECTION

--The defiant son sinned boldly and blatantly against his father, but then “regretted, or changed his mind” and set out to obey.

--The other son, the verbally compliant one, never gave it a second thought because he did not believe it was important, or that it mattered enough to be concerned.

Matt 21:31b Jesus said to them, “Truly I say to you that the tax-gatherers and harlots will get into the kingdom of God before you.

--Those who regret their ways, who repent, who change their direction, will get into the kingdom ahead of the religious folks who have never understood their need for God’s grace in Christ.

 

The old story of the frog in the kettle helps us understand this.  Toss him into a pot of boiling water and he leaps right back out because he knows immediately the drastic change in his condition.  Put him in cool water and gradually turn up the heat and he gets cooked because he does not recognize the increasing danger.
    

Jesus calls for each of us to jump out of the dangerous hot water of our sin and follow Him to forgiveness and freedom.  For many who have long been in the religious pot, they are comfortable and sense no danger because they believe that their religious habits will be sufficient on the day they are called to give an account for their sin.

 

Romans 10:2-3  For I bear them witness that they have a zeal for God, but not in accordance with knowledge.  3 For not knowing about God’s righteousness, and seeking to establish their own, they did not subject themselves to the righteousness of God.

 

--When God commands us to go and calls us to follow, no other way but a change of direction will do—no negotiation, no alternatives, no walking away.

 

B.  A COMMITMENT WITH AUTHENTICITY

--God wants commitment that is genuine, authentic, a commitment that consistently and faithfully obeys Him in reality, not in rituals and traditions kept at some distance, separated from the way we really live.

·         Words and actions agree

·         Will and attitude affirm

--In this parable, Jesus confronts the kind of religion that invites the charge of hypocrisy and challenges the religious and the reprobate to stop talking a belief system and start walking a life of faith.

 

C.  A CONFIDENCE OF POSITION

--Converted folks, regardless of their past, will get into the kingdom of God ahead of those who felt no need to change.

--The tough part to swallow is that Jesus tells everyone that those who genuinely change direction with a changed heart will move ahead of those who have set themselves up as religious leaders in their own system.

Matthew 21:32 “For John came to you in the way of righteousness and you did not believe him; but the tax-gatherers and harlots did believe him; and you, seeing this, did not even feel remorse afterward so as to believe him.

--Those who do believe—even harlots and tax-gatherers who see their error and repent—will step in front of those who have only been the pretenders and have the confidence that their position in the kingdom of God has been secured by God’s grace in Christ, not by how well they have learned to plan the games of the system.

 

How hard is that to handle…that drug abusers and alcoholics, that the sexually promiscuous and the former oppressors of truth, that the unscrupulous scoundrels and murderers, will “get into the kingdom of God before you?”
     If they have spent a lifetime shaking a fist at God and then see their foolishness, recognize His sacrifice at the cross for their sin, and turn to follow and obey Him, Jesus says they can be confident to enter the kingdom before those who spent a lifetime working hard to appear to be righteous.

 

 

III.  THE DETERMINED LOOK OF REBELLION

--In spite of what you have seen of the life-change in others, of the unexplainable in the message of Christ, of the emptiness in those honest inventories of your soul, if you can hear the call of Christ to come or go and determine that you will do neither, you are locked into an unbelief and rebellion that will result in your immediate desperation and your eternal ruin.

 

--In the parable, Jesus holds out hope—even to the hard-hearted religious hypocrites.

 

--You can still change your direction—no matter how long you have made it your habit to hear God speak and then walk away, you can actually do something about that this very day.

 

--The sad thing is, Jesus was addressing a group of folks determined not to believe Him, determined to persist in rebellion against Him, and determined to keep pursuing a “form of godliness” instead of believing in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.

 

--So many people want to prove they are right all the time!  Why not be made righteous instead and allow Christ to overcome your right to be right?

 

--Many church attenders and religious people will find that they wasted their lives in unbelief because they refused to admit that they could be wrong.

 

     They are the joyless crowd enduring the meetings of the church, expressing their disapproval of the practices and people in the church, engaging only superficially in the ministries of the church…and who just do not get it!!

 

If you have been like the defiant son, Christ offers you a way home…you may have shouted “I will not believe or obey!”  But God has finally reached your heart with His message of love for you through Christ and you can no longer resist.  You regret where you have been, what you have said and now are ready to do the will of your heavenly Father.  Dear friend, what a glorious welcome awaits you!

    

On the other extreme, maybe you have played your cards right all these years, done all the right things, learned all the right verses, attended all the right meetings and services, but you are still trapped in a dark room of unbelief and your life is full of inconsistency and hypocrisy.  No one else may know but you.  But you do not have to remain in that condition!  You too can turn away from all that and readily embrace the will of your Father who loves you and waits patiently for you to wake up and come home to Him!

    

A third group here today truly does believe, and trusts in Christ, but finds it difficult to be consistent, to be faithful, to be obedient in word and deed.  You too can find in Him all that your heart longs for if you will turn to Him, keep your eyes on Him, give your heart to Him, and walk by faith in Him.

 

     In Christ alone, there is new life that is filled with a joy and satisfaction that nothing in this world can imitate.  Today, when we hear His voice in His Word and through His Spirit, and combine the responses of the two sons as we say “I will, sir…” and then go and do the will of our Father with great gladness!